💛 Gratitude for Two Incredible Women 💛

Today, I want to express my deepest gratitude to two women who helped me through one of the most difficult processes of my life. Women who supported me not only physically but also emotionally and mentally—through their honesty, sincerity, and knowledge.

The common thread in my story is betrayal.I experienced it in my first 11-year relationship with D. and again in my 8-year relationship with 🥥. And betrayal does more than just break your trust—it erodes your self-worth, your confidence as a woman, and your perception of intimacy.

On top of that, at 24, I was diagnosed with endometriosis, an autoimmune disease that makes natural pregnancy nearly impossible. The pressure from society—"When will you have children?"—was overwhelming. My then-partner D. wanted kids, multiple even, and that only deepened my insecurity. Was that the reason he cheated? No. His flirtatious behaviorhad been a pattern from the start. But as a woman, you automatically start questioning yourself.

When a card reader told me that his mistress A. (Indeed, both mistresses have the same name 🫣) was going to have his child, I knew I couldn’t continue like this. I decided to expose the betrayal and walk away before I lost myself completely.

From Insecurity to Self-Destruction

I tried to restore my shattered self-worth by throwing myself into fleeting encounters—no love, only sex. I made the rules, I took control. But where was my safety? My tenderness? My emotional connection?

Then 🥥 entered my life. He seemed different. He spoke of oneness, deep connection between man and woman, loving touch, and intimacy without rush. But behind that spiritual mask was pure manipulation. He sought out my physical pain, emphasized it, and said: "You have to push through it, Yirka." No foreplay, no tenderness—only penetration was holy. And if I couldn’t climax? "That’s your problem. Every woman before you could." My endometriosis? "A trauma you haven’t overcome yet."

I became consumed by hatred—towards myself, towards women who fake it, towards the lies we keep up. Why do we keep pretending, when deep down, we know better?

The Breakthrough: Two Women Who Spoke the Truth

In 2020, I found Colette Peeters, an osteopath specializing in endometriosis treatment.In 2023, I met Ann Vandenbogaerde - Oka Tri, an osteopath, yoga teacher, and expert in Ayurvedic massages.

They gave me something so many women need: a safe space to talk. A space to say, without shame:❌ No, it’s not you.❌ No, you are not abnormal. ✅Yes, women experience sexuality differently.✅ Yes, you deserve deep, loving, and authentic intimacy.

They helped me trust my body again. My intuition. My inner power. They made me realize that, despite my endometriosis, I am no less of a woman. That my body is my temple—and I have every right to protect it.

Why do we stay silent when the truth can set us free?

The world needs raw, honest conversations. No more faking. No more silence. Truth brings clarity, protection, and peace.

💬 Talking is the key to transformation. 🔑

💛 Thank you, Colette & Ann, for your honesty, strength, and sincerity. 💛